For leaders who are seeking deep relational work
The experience
This work focuses on Self Leadership. - the capacity to lead your own internal system before attempting to lead others.
Many leaders have strong strategic intelligence yet remain driven by unconscious parts of the psyche. Protective parts manage performance, control, and image. Other parts carry fear of abandonment, shame, or unmet longing. These inner dynamics inevitably appear inside intimate relationships.
Self Leadership means learning to recognize these parts, regulate them, and return to the grounded presence that Internal Family Systems calls the Self.
From this place, leadership becomes clearer, relationships become less reactive, and intimacy becomes safer.
Exclusive. Private. Personalised.
Every couple undergoes thorough psychological and medical screening before psychedelic work is considered.
This process also allows us to begin getting to know you — understanding your relationship, building trust together, and preparing for the work before you arrive in the Netherlands.
We assess:
Personal psychiatric history
Family history of psychosis or bipolar disorder
Current medication and medical considerations
Substance use patterns
Relational stability between partners
Capacity for emotional regulation
If any contraindication is identified, psychedelic work is not included.
The safety and wellbeing of both partners always guide how we structure the process.
Before arriving: Screening
Before any depth work takes place, we spend time preparing both partners for the process.
Preparation sessions allow us to clarify intentions, establish psychological safety, and ensure that each person feels informed and grounded before entering the experience.
We focus on:
Clarifying intentions for the work
Exploring current relational dynamics
Identifying emotional boundaries and sensitivities
Preparing the nervous system for deeper exploration
Establishing communication agreements
Creating psychological safety between partners
Preparation creates the foundation for a meaningful experience.
When couples feel clear, supported, and emotionally ready, the work can unfold with far greater depth and stability.
Day 1: Preparation
For some couples, the second day of the intensive includes carefully guided psychedelic-assisted depth work.
This work is not the centre of the retreat, but a tool that can help access emotional material that is often defended in ordinary conversation.
During the journey we focus on:
Creating a calm and contained therapeutic environment
Supporting emotional openness and vulnerability
Allowing suppressed emotional material to surface
Increasing empathy and relational understanding
Softening rigid defensive patterns
Supporting emotional safety throughout the experience
Our role is to carefully hold the process so that the experience remains psychologically safe and relationally meaningful.
Day 2: Psychedelic Journey
The days following any depth work are dedicated to integration.
Insights alone rarely create lasting change. Integration ensures that emotional breakthroughs translate into practical shifts within the relationship.
We focus on:
Reflecting on the experiences that emerged
Translating insight into relational understanding
Identifying new communication patterns
Establishing repair protocols for conflict
Reconnecting emotional and sexual intimacy
Creating agreements that support the relationship going forward
Integration helps transform powerful experiences into sustainable relational change.
Day 3 & 4: Integration
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